Is being an extrovert necessary to be a good parent?

Mia Wasikowska

As a parent, navigating the hectic world of play dates, extracurricular activities, and endless social engagements can be overwhelming. For introverted parents, this can be an even greater challenge. It goes against their natural tendency to seek solitude and introspection. Sneha John, a clinical psychologist at Camali Clinic Child & Adult Mental Health, explains that the high energy of young children can be overstimulating for introverts.

So, does being a parent mean you have to transform into a social butterfly? Nilufer Yuldas, a selective extrovert, believes that being social and making connections can be beneficial when the timing is right. This has even helped her son navigate new friendships and school environments, even when other parents were worried about their children’s socializing abilities.

However, there are benefits to being an introverted parent. Bene Katabua, a psychologist in Abu Dhabi, points out that introverted parents can offer children a quiet confidence, self-awareness, and deep thinking that can be beneficial in the long run. On the flip side, there are also challenges for introverted parents. Rashmi, an Indian parent, admits that her discomfort with social interaction affected her children, causing them to become shy and inward-looking.

So how can introverted parents cope? Katabua suggests finding time for solitude as a family activity, engaging in quiet time at home, and finding less draining ways to socially engage. According to John, finding a balance and taking time to recharge can make introverted parents better caregivers.

While being a social butterfly might not be necessary, developing some socialization skills is important for parents, but it’s also crucial to recognize and embrace the strengths of introversion when it comes to parenting.

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